Tip 1: How to create happiness
Tip 1: How to create happiness
In the worldly sense, happiness is satisfactionhuman needs. The needs of the body, the ego, the soul. And each of us starts his journey from childhood with a dream. Each of us, from early childhood, brings with it a full set of conditions and standard templates about how happiness should be.
But after becoming adults we are completelyunhappy, tired, sad, suffering people. So what has become of our dream? Where are the ideals of a happy life? Why is it so difficult to find peace and peace in the heart? Filled with joy from life? Why did we get out of childhood so happy and have lost our lives?
And there are reasons for this! The fact is that each of us goes through life alone as an enchanted wanderer. Man is bewitched by life, by its magic. And every day he is forced to drink this witching potion of life. He is drunk, drugged with this poison and of course he does not see the road ahead of him. He stumbles, falls, gets up and goes again. And so millions of people roam the world, colliding with each other.
And the problem of man is that he does notseeking a way out of their situation. And it's not his fault. Because he does not know anyone who has found a way out of this series of losses and the resulting suffering. He himself only loses - health, freedom, time, love, friendship, trust. People live around him in the same way. Therefore, pain, boredom, despair became the norm.
And if to you comes the understanding that soYou do not want to live anymore. If you can see all the bitterness of the situation. And you have enough courage and patience to change and change the way of life that led you to this vital impasse. Then you must immediately collect all your despair and pain, your grief and fear and loudly to say to yourself: "STOP"!
You must stop and look at your life.top down. Calmly, unbiased, from the side to assess the current situation. And to see on their example and the example of others that neither expensive things, nor respect, nor prosperity, work, pride, duty, trips abroad, fame, power have never made anyone happy.
You must drop all this tinsel, all thesepursuit of illusions and go all out to strive to become happy. Create the conditions for life to develop and take small steps towards happiness. And then you will see that many false ideals, for which you have been chasing your whole life, will fall away on their own. And only what is really important will remain in your life.
Remember, the path begins with the first step, and letnow you are defeated, defeated, tired, in the chains of your unbearable conditions of life and obligations. But never forget that you are great people! And every your tear and every your breath costs more than all the treasures of the world!
Tip 2: What is the construction of family happiness
The construction of any house begins with a foundation. And like other buildings, family happiness also has its own foundation. This, of course, is love. Home happiness can not be built without love, and thus not only is it an important component here.