What is "Lolita's syndrome"
What is "Lolita's syndrome"
Lolita - the character of the same scandalousNabokov's novel. However, more recently, in modern psychology, the term "Lolita syndrome" has appeared. They named a mental disorder in young ladies who are too early to enter adulthood.
What is Lolita syndrome?Lolita or a nimfetka girl is a young lady,Only entered the adolescent period, which is already clearly showing signs of sexual maturity. "The pubertal period" is not the easiest moment in the life of any person, characterized by certain physiological processes. If hormonal restructuring in girls during puberty begins about 8 years, then it is considered premature. However, according to the results of modern studies, at present, premature hormonal changes in the body are observed in every sixth girl. In particular, this applies to young ladies with excessive weight. Since young girls do not quite report to sexual attraction and do not know how to control themselves, they often become easy prey for older members of the opposite sex. For some of them, even adolescent promiscuity is typical - a frequent change of sexual partners at such a young age. And some, in addition, along with this start to try and other "adult" hobbies - alcohol and drugs.
Causes of Lolita's syndromeOften, "Lolita syndrome" is manifested in girls,who do not receive due attention from their parents. They have been left to themselves from an early age, that's why they try to taste the adult life before the time. There are girls who take care of their grown-up boyfriends to replace the father's lack of love. In addition, it pretty much raises their self-esteem. If before they wanted to feel beautiful and loved, now there is a person who cares about them and constantly compliments. Realizing their attractiveness, girls discover new ways of manipulating with the help of sexuality. Although more often, "Lolita" - not manipulators, and victims. Adult fans use them and throw them when they like. Some girls want to grow up quicker, looking at their idols - beautiful models, actresses or even favorite Barbie dolls. They want to start using cosmetics, walking on their heels and behaving like adult women. In this regard, a number of scientists even thought about the permissibility of producing toys with such an ideal, attractive appearance as in Barbie. Media also pour oil on the fire - advertising posters are full of half-naked beauties, therefore at a subconscious level, it seems to girls that without the presence of aggressive sexuality, they simply nothing will be achieved in life. If you notice a manifestation of "Lolita's syndrome" from your child, then you should pay more attention to it, and if necessary, reduce it to a conversation with a psychologist.